Tuesday, May 22, 2007

Call And You Will Be Given

Now, Ace will call anyone.. as long as you have food in your hand.

When Nett had green bean soup in his hand, he called Nett Nett...
When Ah Yee had beh teh sor in his hand, he called Ah Yee...
When Shu Shu/Yeye/Nainai had liang teh in their hands, he called them loudly...

When he had to choose between Shu Shu, Yeye and Nainai, he chose Nainai.. who cannot but help but MELT and give him the liang teh that he wanted even though she insisted previously that it was too cold for him to take so much.. hahaha.... Isnt he smart?
That being said though, while I agree with Ask and you Will Be Given... it is not right to do this to your child too often at all because this tells your child that your love for him is conditional and he will not feel secure..

But I think this is a common game parents like to play because it makes it makes one feel good when your son or daughter call you that you are willing to do anything to hear him call you.. even bribe him...

If you have the habit of doing this. Stop.

At least if you do it already.. what is done cannot be undone.. do remember to tell your child and remind him again and again that you will love him unconditionally! ;)

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